3 easy things to try to rev up your sex life

Enjoy your partner. Kiss a little. Love lots. And remember to switch it up from missionary.

When in a long-term relationship, sex can get a little routine. The ins and out and monotony of life can resemble the ins and out of what’s happening en la cama . Buy you can turn it around! You can enjoy the thrill of sex just like the first time you got it on. Here are 3 easy things to try to rev up your sex life.

Remember foreplay

This is the easiest way to enjoy sex again. But I don’t have time to massage his body with tea tree oil, you worry. You may not have an hour but sensually rubbing his shoulders only takes 5 minutes. There’s also the simple thrill of kissing. Before having sex, kiss him passionately. Caress his back and his chest . Nibble on his neck and lick his nether region. You don’t have to go for hours. Just a few minutes of foreplay sets the mood and can build intimacy.

Role playing

Do you want to be a police officer and cuff him? Will he be a cowboy that you ride till sunset? You can be anyone! Just make sure you talk about it before strapping on your holster. Not everyone is comfortable with role play. If that’s the case, start off with an easy one. You be his masseur. He gets a happy ending. Everybody wins.

Quick and easy

Sometimes all you need is a quickie. A romp in the hay during lunch or when you have a house full of guests can be a spontaneous pick me up. A cousin of mine even does it in the closet. She has three children and does what she has to do to keep her sex life going, and exciting.

Now, go on. Enjoy your partner. Kiss a little. Love lots. And remember to switch it up from missionary.